Lesson Learnt from: Sense of Conciousness

It was a rainy day. The weather outside was very cloudy and made the day looked very dark. Heavy rainfall was being expected anytime.  The day was a little hectic since I had to attend a meeting with my seniors . The discussion along with my senior authorities went on for a very long time. Luckily the meeting ended up exactly on the time of my log out. sharp 5 PM, I came out of my office campus as usual. Heavy rain fall had already been occurred and stopped. There was just a drizzling  all around. I could also sense a pale soft sunlight everywhere. Fresh sunshine on the flowers, trees made that evening very pleasant after a very heavy rainfall. I could sense the birds flying around with a complete charm. There was a light sunshine everywhere which added to the nature’s beauty. Everything around me looked very positive. J     

On my way back home, very fortunately I happened to meet my old school buddy! J Since we met after a long time we greeted each other with a warm hug. We spent that pleasant evening with a great cup of coffee in the café day. Our conversations started and took us back to our school memories. 

 As the conversation went on I could sense a very weird form of a thought which just flashed for a fraction of a second and disappeared. More than a thought I can call it as a small image that just passed in my mind. The strange abnormal thought was about the unexpected injury caused to me by a car accident where in I was severely hurt. At that point of time I could not capture what exactly was it about. I had to ignore my thought and move on.

The days passed. Everything was going quite good. I visited the church on the Sunday morning and came back home along with some fruits and vegetables . Soon after I entered my house I received a call from my friend . Since it was a weekend, my friends had  made some plans for going out for lunch . I too happily agreed for a day out J

 It was 10 AM in the morning where I was on the way to my friends place. Unfortunately this became the most critical moment of my life. The most unexcepted thought that I had been through two months back happened to be true in my life. It was a very unfortunate situation. It was the same car accident that had appeared in my mind where I was hit by a car and was badly injured. As a result I had to take bed rest for 3 instant months. 

I really regret for taking my own consciousness for granted. It was a sign of warning given to me by my own thought. In this case my inner consciousness happened to be true. You can call it intuition.  So this was the sense of inner consciousness  that just flashed in my mind. I regret myself for being so careless even after a sign of warning from my intution.       

Lesson learnt: Children are followers of their Parents

It was late afternoon where the sun was very happy to bake me :) I was in a way to my friend’s house with on my scooter, I was driving with concentration and suddenly a red car rushed away, after some time I saw a little boy threw away the empty cup noodle by slightly opening the car window and rolled up the window. I missed messing up my attire. Most annoyed, so my next thought is to chase that car and give some knowledge on manners but I failed to catch up since there was a signal.

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My other thought was of my friend, as she was waiting for me keeping her busy work aside. She would throw a fit if I’m not by time. I came across the same car sometime later. I saw the worse again. The boy was ready to throw the cup noodles rolling down the window. I was frustrated and pissed off. I drew fast and stopped the car and there were four of them, two children with a healthy elder women and a driver.  I said “If you want throw away the waste throw it in a trash can. Please don’t mess up the road”. But the lady in the car gazed out of the window, still smiling as if she hadn’t noticed anything and gave a taunt “We have seen so many of them giving these type of dialogues, and who are you to scold my son, you please move on we are late” and screamed at her child to throw away the waste in front of me. Is this something called Ego which I am not aware of? But the car wouldn’t have messed but the road would. What was she letting him to do? The child listened to the lady and threw the waste.

The mistake was not from that little boy; however it was from the lady. If the reply was apologize and would she advised the child not to repeat these mistakes, he would have learnt a lesson and would have noted back in his mind.

The lesson is, when a child watches you treating kindly, generously, looking for ways to help others and showing manners they often naturally model this behaviour and go in the same path and add in their own path of life. Educating children in a costly school and giving all kind of luxuries does not help. It is the behaviour of the children that helps surrounding and most importantly the elders should be a good guide in the crucial age of a child. Parents influence on children plays an important role in the development and behaviour.

Hence, the lesson I learnt from the incident is that whatever wrong action we perform, it gets impacted on the youngsters. Teach them good and make them a great person!